My plan of setting up a counselling practice is happening and I’m excited! With that comes all things new, blogging for example (who on earth decided that name?!). My thinking is the blog will share articles on subjects like self care, different aspects of mental health, media coverage of all things therapeutic and so on. But you know what they say about best laid plans…so I’ll hold my ideas loosely and see how they go, grow and evolve. I thought for this first posting I’d go back to when the idea of establishing my own practice seemed a very far, distant idea.
Years ago in a previous life I worked in creative publishing and I remember one day looking through piles of pictures for a particular project. I didn’t find what I needed for my project; instead I found a picture that really resonated with where I was in my personal life at that time. I guess you could say I actually did find what I was looking for. (So fond am I of that image and the message it delivers, I still have it twenty plus years later). Eventually after many years passed I did a complete career change into counselling whereupon I wanted a name that reflected this favourite image I had and the unknown personal journeys that many take when in therapy. It was by chance during a walk with one of my favourite people in the Scottish highlands, that it all became clear (the walk, in fact was where they filmed a quidditch match for one of the Harry Potter movies).
Setting out, a waterfall could be seen in the distance that we were aiming for. As we walked, the path often changed never sure what we were going to be faced with around the next corner. At times it was clearly defined gravel and earth, at others muddy and slippery and sometimes there were stepping stones in just the right place to jump across streams or scramble up rocky slopes. Then there were the choices. The path divided in two, sometimes three, which one do we take? If we take this one, it means climbing up that (too big) hill, if we choose the other – that looks like a river and is there a way to get across it?
Choices, decisions, consequences…
Then came one of those infamous light bulb moments – this walk we were on and life could be one and the same. At times it’s easier; you know where you’re heading and how best to get there. Then there are occasions when you’re lost, stuck and don’t know which way to turn. There are times when the way forward’s clear, and others when it’s obstacle after obstacle. Sometimes it feels like we’re walking a tightrope (hanging on for dear life!) and at others there’s the comfort of a hand supporting us, silently saying ‘I’m here for you’. There’s also the satisfaction of making it, whatever ‘making it’ means for each of us. For me on that day, it was sitting in the most amazing spot almost underneath the waterfall, looking up as the water tumbled down, relentless in its journey.
And so there it was on a cold November day a couple of years ago, PathFinder Counselling found its feet. Like arriving at the waterfall, it’s taken me a little time to get to where I am now, but with ‘consistence persistence’ I’ve got here and what’s more I’m fine with the fact it’s ok to take the long way round.
So if this has got you wondering about the path that you’re on and you’re not sure where you’re going, take your next step and get in touch. We can work together as I help you understand you have everything inside of yourself to find your way, sometimes it’s just reading the signs a different way.
I’ll leave you with a quote and images from that November day, oh and of course the one that started what would be a whole new life journey for me in years that followed…
“There are no wrong turnings. Only paths we had not known we were meant to walk.”
Guy Gavriel Kay
If you’d like to get in contact with me on a one-to-one basis about any issues you’d like to discuss further, please contact me.